My Angel, O Best Beloved, is a man of principle and faith. He is also, as I have been told numerous times, going to have a very long waiting list if I should have a sudden infarct and forget that I have the best of all possible partners: someone who believes in me, supports me, and would never dream of doing anything but treating me as an absolute equal. He doesn't put up with my bullcrap. He hits back when I punch him, but no harder than I hit him. He won't let me be less than I am capable of being. And that's why I love him.
The mystery of the anonymous benefactor has been sorted out, and thank you :)